shades of pink and grey

(i added many pictures ,they didnt appear when i hit the publish button.i tried many times,but no luck:(,anyways...)

lets just say ,it is saturday night aka party time:)

i go to my cupboard and see my wardrobe.ok i should write seeing my WARDROBE:)

---there is just so much variety .the more i see,the more i realize there is to see

there are glittery colors ,there are pink colors,there are weird colors,there are undergarments

there are silver colors 

some corners of the cupboard were never looked at before,certain items are there u dont even realize why,some clothes are old ,some brand new,some are gifted to you,some are half forgotten

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every one has his unique blend of colors,shades of personality

some traits are just so that others see us in a certain way .Eventhough we dont like that shade very much,we use it for material gains(glittery clothes)

while some shades are superficial ,other traits reflect our true self,that we only 'wear' in front of our very near and dear ones(the undergarments)

some shades reflect our talents(the special uniforms,if you are /have been  a school prefect or captain ,you will have one)

while others remind us of our deeds(the stolen leather jacket from your friend)

everyone has their dark secrets ,so you are likely to find a dark dull coat stuffed in some small corner of your cupboard.watch out:)

while their are some traits better be forgotten,there are choices that you made that you are proud of.that brightens you up ,every now and then .like the silver shades

no matter how much we age,there is still a funny side in all of us.yes,the pink shades.u simply laugh at yourself.

at times,we do things ,say things we ourselves dont understand .like those little items that are so idly scattered in your cupboard you never understood why

new 2013,new year ,new resolutions.we try to give up the bad habits and they just seem to bounce back on us--like while looking for your brand new shirt (that u are unable to find),u end up wearing the good old worn-out T-shirt

there would always be some clothes that u didnt know before,they existed.(i never knew i enjoyed blogging so much )

Every one has their own good memories :) like while searching for your watch,u happen to take a glimpse of the red shirt gifted by yr child hood friend.

At times,some of our habits/ traits just make us happy.yes ,i am talking about hobbies like listening to music

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but whatever the content,every color smudges with one another to give the appearance of a 'painting' -your painting.it is up to us how we can appreciate it. it is okay if we have stupid or dull(even dirty) shades .it makes 'our ' painting all the more colorful

here lets take note of :
a) No one's perfect .We should accept ourselves ,the way we are .And learn to laugh at ourselves .However ,this should not mean

• we should be okay we our those traits that hurt/harm others.
• stop trying for improvement 

b)there is always scope for creation .We may add or remove shades to our personality .You are  the artist of your life

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"rather than discovering yourself ,life is more about creating yourself"

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 Lets dont tag anyone has "Good" or "Bad" ,"Sex seeker" or "Love seeker" ,or "Wise" /"Immature","Panicky" /"Calm and Composed"

Just because a person projects his one side or we perceive only a certain side of his personality,doesnt mean he is only that .

because everyone has shades ,many shades of personality .U also have them .

I have them.

and i also have got late for the party:(