Trapped

Why do we keep making the same mistakes again?We’d  know of at least one person who gets angry over food,very particular abt it but wouldn’t mind drinking alcohol.People like similar type of music and movies.A girl who loves chick flicks ,wouldn’t usually wanna watch a science fiction. 

Architects are these days designing buildings and stations ,so that ppl can be as easily evacuated as possible ,based on computer data on  how and where ppl will run,on average  during an emergency. So are we more predictable than expected?U decide.

Why is it that most of us would want to put things off to tomorrow related to studies or work?But would reply to a sms instantly?or why would introverts happily turn the other way when running into an acquaintance or a nosy chacha ji or aunty ji in a wedding?

Have you ever wondered if thoughts follow a pattern.Lets call it ‘thouttern’(Don’t google the term,u would never find it :P).Psychologists believe that 98.7% of our daily thoughts are repeats in one form or the other.

So,if we do have a thouttern,then we should be thinking the same thoughts in similar situations and these thoughts get so repetitive that we hardly are conscious of them the next time we are in the same situation.

For instance,some of us would always be comfortable in any social situation.We speak as if we are on some guard or we are ought to say things in a certain way.And we fumble ,making a complete mess of ourselves.We eventually think we are dumbos,incompetent to even expresss simple things.But,in reality,our negative thoughts kick in during a social situation .Whatever we say is subconsciously centred on “to speak in a certain proper way “.Over time ,how we perceive a social situation becomes very different from others.So,in a way we really are dumbos to ignore what actually could be happening :P

So,would it be right to say that we fall into some sort of trap of thouttern happening at a subconscious level ,allowing us to see only our version of reality,preventing us from seeing other viewpoints and immense opportunites in life.In case you are wondering something is just  not going right  in yr life ,be it in relationships,finances,health,work….think abt this.

Here are common words and phrases.Lets see the other side detached from their stereotypical meanings.

• Painter or an applied pigment chemist?
• Life or a whim of several billion cells that happen to be ‘you’
• Do or die .Nah that’s old school …Do before Die.that’s better
• If you cant learn to do well ,practice it till it becomes perfect  or if you cant learn to do it well,enjoy doing it badly
• Never put off things till tomorrow what can be done today or Never do those things what can be avoided altogether:P
• Contemplating or intellectual masturbation?
• Don’t have any regrets and hard feelings or If you can’t get rid of the ‘skeletons’ in yr closet ,better teach them to dance:P
• Be kind and speak politely to elders or Speak to them in their ‘language’ so that more than their mind,their heart understands(can be used to one’s advantage:P)
• A life that just happened or 86,400 seconds gifted
• There are exceptions to every rule.or There are exceptions to every rule.Even this one:P
• Ppl say love is a feeling that comes from him or her and we feel loved or the feeling was always there ,only invoked by the other person?

So,would you ,the readers,like to continue the list?

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